How to Choose Your First Tail Butt Plug: A Beginner’s Guide

So, you’re ready to explore something new and playful. That’s awesome! But let’s be real: stepping into the world of tail butt plugs for the first time can be... a lot. You see a gorgeous fox tail butt plug, a cute bunny tail butt plug, and dozens of options, and your brain just short-circuits.

What size? What material? Will it be comfortable?

Don't worry. We’ve got you. This isn't a scary technical manual. This is a simple guide to help you figure out what you really want. We'll help you navigate the choices so you can find the perfect animal tail butt plug that’s all about comfort, fun, and expressing your fantasy - especially when you’re investing in a beautiful handmade piece.

What Is a Tail Butt Plug, Anyway?

At its simplest, a butt plug tail is an adult novelty toy that combines two things: a butt plug (designed for comfortable anal wear) and a decorative tail.

For many people, it’s a key part of fantasy or pet play tail roleplay, helping them get into the headspace of a sly fox, a playful kitten, or a wild wolf. For others, it’s just a beautiful, sensual accessory that adds a new dimension to intimate moments or even cosplay. Whatever your reason, the goal is to find one that feels good and looks amazing.

Pro Tip:

“When engaging in anal play (or with anal toys), you absolutely MUST have a reliable, water-based lubricant. The more lube, the better, I always say! The anus doesn’t naturally lubricate in the same way a vagina does (though I highly encourage you to use lube during ALL forms of sexual play). This means we need to be sure we’re really lubed up and ready to play before we do anything with our bums.” - Gigi Engle Certified Sex & Relationships Psychotherapist, Sex Educator and Award Winning Author

Finding Your Perfect Tail Plug: A Step-by-Step Guide

The "perfect" first tail is all about finding the right combination for you. Let’s break it down into three easy steps.

Step 1: Choosing the Tail (The Look & Feel)

This is the fun part! What's your vibe?

Faux Fur Tail Butt Plug (Man-Made Fur): This is the most popular and recommended choice for beginners. Why? It’s ethical, easier to clean, and comes in every color imaginable. Modern faux fur is incredibly soft and realistic.
Real Fur Tail Butt Plug (Like a Real Fox Tailplug): This is for those who value authenticity above all. A real fur tail has a unique weight and texture that’s impossible to duplicate fully.

Once you know the material, you can pick your character:

Fox: The all-time classic. Long, fluffy, and iconic.
Bunny: Super cute, plush, and a perfect, playful starter option.
Cat: Often slimmer, sleeker, and with a bit of sassy personality.
Wolf: A bit wilder, often thicker and bushier, for a more untamed look.

Step 2: Choosing the Plug (The Comfort & Safety)

This is the most important part for a beginner. The tail is for looks, but the plug is for comfort.

Size: Start Small. No, Really. We can't say this enough: get a small tailplug. It might look tiny, but your first goal is comfort and learning what you like. It's all about gradual introduction. You can always graduate to a large tail butt plug later, but starting too big is the fastest way to have a bad time.

Material: Silicone vs. Metal

Silicone Tail Plug: These are fantastic. They are body-safe, lightweight, and have a slight "give" to them, which is very forgiving for beginners. Crucial tip: You must use a water-based lubricant with silicone.
Metal Tail Plug: These are beautiful, hygienic, and have a nice, satisfying weight. They're non-porous and super easy to clean. Plus, you can warm them up or cool them down for temperature play.

The Golden Rule of Safety: No matter the size or material, your plug must have a flanged base. This is the wide part at the end that stops the toy from going too far in. Never, ever use anything that doesn't have one.

Step 3: Why the Detachable plug with tail is a Game-Changer

Most tails you'll find are glued permanently to the plug. This is a huge pain.

Our handmade tails are different: the plug and the tail are separate, interchangeable pieces. They screw together securely.

Why is this so amazing?

Way Easier to Clean: This is a big one. You can unscrew the tail and set it aside, safe and dry. Then you can properly wash the plug with soap and water without ever worrying about damaging the beautiful fur.
It’s a "Mix and Match" System: This is where you get true value.

- Change your look: Love your small plug? You can buy a fox tail, a bunny tail, and a cat tail and use them all with the same plug.
- Change your size: Ready to move up to a medium plug? You don't need to buy a whole new tail. Just get the new plug size and attach your favorite tail to it.

This system saves you money and gives you endless possibilities for play.

A Note on Handmade & Custom Tail Plugs and Ears

There's a world of difference between a mass-produced tail and a handmade one. With a handmade piece, you’re getting quality craftsmanship. But the best part? You can get a custom tail plug. This means you can request specific colors, lengths, or fur combinations to create a piece that is 100% unique to you and your fantasy.

FAQ: Answering Your (Totally Normal) Questions

Let's tackle the "pain points" - the questions everyone has but is sometimes afraid to ask.

Q: Will it hurt? I'm honestly a little nervous.

A: It shouldn't! If it hurts, you’re moving too fast or need more lube. The key for your first time is to be relaxed. Use a generous amount of lubricant (lube is your best friend!). Go slow, listen to your body, and start with that small tail butt plug. There's no rush.

Q: How do I clean this thing, especially the fur?

A: This is the #1 problem our detachable system solves.

Unscrew the tail from the plug.
Wash the plug (silicone or metal) with warm water and antibacterial soap or a dedicated toy cleaner.
For the tail:

- Faux Fur: You can gently hand-wash the fur in cool water with a mild shampoo. Rinse it, gently squeeze (don't wring!) out the water, and let it air dry completely. Once dry, you can brush it out to restore its fluff.
- Real Fur: Do not wash with water. Spot-clean it gently if needed, but mostly, it just needs to be brushed. For a deep clean, treat it like a fur coat and take it to a specialist.

Q: Are you sure I should get a small plug? It looks tiny.

A: Yes, we are 100% sure. Think of it this way: you want your first experience to be so comfortable and easy that you can't wait to try it again. A small plug guarantees that. It’s about the sensation and the look, not just the size.

Q: Will the tail fall off while I'm wearing it?

A: Not if it’s a quality product. Our screw-on mechanism is designed to be very secure. It can handle all the wags, wiggles, and pounces you want.

Q: Can I... you know... sit down or walk around?

A: Absolutely. Plugs are designed with a slim "neck" and a flared base (often T-shaped or curved) that sits comfortably between your butt cheeks, not in them. It might feel a little unusual at first, but walking, sitting, and lounging are all part of the fun.

Pro Tip:

“Before you get all up in that bum-area, you want to be sure you’re feeling relaxed and ready. This is ESPECIALLY true before doing any sort of penetration.” - Gigi Engle Certified Sex & Relationships Psychotherapist, Sex Educator and Award Winning Author

Your First Tail is Waiting

Choosing your first tail butt plug isn't just about buying a toy; it's about giving yourself permission to play and explore a new side of yourself. Don't let the huge assortment overwhelm you.

Just remember the beginner's checklist:

Start with a small tail butt plug.
Prioritize a detachable/interchangeable system. It’s cleaner, more versatile, and a better long-term investment.
Choose a handmade fur (faux or real) that makes you feel amazing.